So I bet you’re expecting a tell all outburst of all that has been going on this last month that I’ve been too busy to blog, but alas this is not that post. My brain at the moment is absolutely BURSTING with ideas. There are SO MANY blog posts that I’m dying to sit down and write that sometimes I just don’t know where to start. I have been struggling to keep on top of blogging whilst we have been experimenting with vlogging and trying to keep up with our YouTube channel whilst I was starting a new job, that involved 2 weeks of full-time induction weeks, and beginning my waking night shifts.
A sad goodbye
Also, we have said goodbye to our beautiful au pair Martina, there is a couple of posts in the making with regards to that, as we miss Martina lots and have appreciated all the time that she gave to us. I will save my sentiments for the post that is coming especially just for her. We have been busy sorting out the schools that the girls will be going to as the one that we were intending to send them to expected more fees than we had offered. With having four children we had asked for help from the community fund for the girls as they technically don’t live with us, but they couldn’t match what we asked. This was actually a blessing in disguise, as we were rebudgeting (we were still intending to send them but just would involve us being stretched to our limits for the next 7 years) I did some research and received a high recommendation from a dear friend for a little village school that is quite a distance away from us but all that we wanted for the children from the private school for free. This is great news as it means the money we will save can be spent complimenting their education, with lovely holidays, horse riding, dance lessons, swimming and beautiful birthday parties. We also have sponsored children in Uganda and Birkina Faso and it allows us to keep blessing them too and maybe take on a couple of more children (our aim is to have one for each child to write to when they’re old enough as pen pals).
I am literally full to the brim with ideas for our blog and vlog and I am looking at a complete rebranding. I love our blog, and it is a beautiful space that I adore but I know that our blog name (Don’t call me step Mummy) can seem exclusive and also have negative connotations. I want to encourage Mum’s, Step Mums, Adoptive Mums, Foster Mums, LGBT Mums, Working Mums, SAHM’s, WAHM’s, breast feeding Mum’s, bottle-feeding Mum’s to see that we’re all just doing the best that we can. We’re all in it together.
So watch this space, there will be a lot of catch up posts going up over the next week. Please don’t feel obliged to read them all, they’re there for our memories as a lot has happened for us this past month, but if you’d like to follow us on our journey then please do.
Love to all the readers who are following us on our journey so far and thank you for your patience with me this last month.